ASK AUNTIE ANYTHING: SUMMER EDITION, PART 1

Hoe phases, style essentials, and fashion circle politics...

And we’re back with PART 1 of Ask Auntie Anything: Summer Edition, where I answer all your burning questions about literally anything. No topic is off-limits. This is a safe space, and Auntie is here to help. This edition is a bit all over the place in terms of topics which I love, so I really think there is something for everyone here. Love/dating/sex…style……fashion circle politics. Let’s get into it, shall we?

I’M TURNING 30 SOON AND WANT TO HAVE MY HOE PHASE. ANY ADVICE/TIPS/WARNINGS? 

I absolutely loved this question but needed a bit more context so I didn’t lead my girl down an unrighteous path, so I circled back for more T. She explained that they had spent most of their twenties dating with two short-term boyfriends, and now she wanted to date more and have more sex. After hearing her peers recounting their sexcapades, she felt like she was “missing out.” But even more, she thought she wasn’t fully aware of her desires and wanted to explore those more, too.